2 things to work on
so the process of breaking up is about learning, and growing from your mistakes..
2 key information provided to me that became an 'issue'
a. indecisiveness and being dependent
- upon analysis, i attribute it to growing up in a culture wherein we rely to our parents on decisions. Usually they decide for us and they're the ones who always has to be followed.
- This i believe is a growth and development trait that i can work on and have to work on. Despite the harsh emotional troubles i'm going through; after all this, I know that i'll be a better person and I hope to bring my mojo back. Given the situation on where I am, I really have no choice but to develop in this aspect
b. forgetful
- this is something that is pretty hard. I know i'm smart, within the siblings i know i'm most capable to handle data on my head. And yet, genetically i'm the same with my parents. really really bad memory. not even into details.
- i guess i'll work on this as well. i list everything so i won't forget but i guess that's something she deemed important. what can i do. everyone has his/her shares of attitudes
In these traits, i do realize that she has her share of bad traits which i don't like and yet i loved. but maybe, she'll grow on it. or I guess God just has different plans for each of us.
2 key information provided to me that became an 'issue'
a. indecisiveness and being dependent
- upon analysis, i attribute it to growing up in a culture wherein we rely to our parents on decisions. Usually they decide for us and they're the ones who always has to be followed.
- This i believe is a growth and development trait that i can work on and have to work on. Despite the harsh emotional troubles i'm going through; after all this, I know that i'll be a better person and I hope to bring my mojo back. Given the situation on where I am, I really have no choice but to develop in this aspect
b. forgetful
- this is something that is pretty hard. I know i'm smart, within the siblings i know i'm most capable to handle data on my head. And yet, genetically i'm the same with my parents. really really bad memory. not even into details.
- i guess i'll work on this as well. i list everything so i won't forget but i guess that's something she deemed important. what can i do. everyone has his/her shares of attitudes
In these traits, i do realize that she has her share of bad traits which i don't like and yet i loved. but maybe, she'll grow on it. or I guess God just has different plans for each of us.
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